In this article, I’m going to talk about how Lacrosse players can improve their performance and play by developing an important quality in athletes which is trust.
The Story Of Bill
He loves working out and conditioning himself to improve his stamina as he knows it makes him a better player. Bill’s coach taught him early that lacrosse players need to be constantly moving in order to be effective.
Unfortunately, there is a downside to all of this for Bill. He tends to over think and under-react in games which sometimes puts him a step behind his opponents.
His dad and coach can see the hesitation especially when he gets tied up with the ball. His dad says he gets that “deer in the headlights” look. Lacrosse is a very fast- moving sport. There is very little time to think.
Everything that a player has learned in practices needs to come out naturally and automatically. Bill, (and most athletes for that matter) would improve their performances tremendously by learning and playing with trust.
When you have trust in your body’s ability to perform the task in competition, it’s almost as if something else is directing your movements and not you.
For athletes with a “need to control” issue, this is scary but it is essential to being able to play in the flow state where your full talent shows up. To develop trust, the lacrosse player must first eliminate the main block to it: FEAR.
How do you do that? I teach a process to all my athletes where the athlete embraces all emotions and understands that all of them are good and even necessary for our life. When you truly welcome emotions, even difficult ones such as embarrassment and disappointment that come from failures, then you don’t FEAR them!
The short version to overcoming fear:
There’s only 2 things to fear in this world:
1. physical harm to the body and;
There‘s nothing else. Let go of the fear of emotions and you are basically fearless. Now, TRUST can emerge.
- Do you get on the bike and start thinking about how to pump your legs and move your arms to steer? No, of course not. You trust that once you get on the bike, your body will get you where you want to go.
- Can you connect to that trusting feeling or idea right now?
- How about the trust you have that the sun will come up tomorrow and create day?
- Can you notice the difference in feeling now than before?
- Can you bring that to the field?
Every time you make a successful move, pass, defense or even score, think about how trust was a big factor in that and know that you can grow it. Be aware of it is a big first step.
Effect of TRUST in Bill’s game
I taught all of this to Bill and he completely turned his game around. His knowledge of the game then became an asset and he used the TRUST he discovered to become the team’s most improved player.
Everything he trained and drilled so hard for began to pay off in games and it was effortless when he dialed into that TRUST of his abilities and got out of his own way.